Marginalia

Marginalia

A personal library of skills extracted from books.

Literature
A Swim in a Pond in the Rain
George Saunders
Craft skills for fiction writing, drawn from Saunders's close readings of Tolstoy, Chekhov, Turgenev, and Gogol.
Communication
Thanks for the Feedback
Douglas Stone & Sheila Heen
Skills for receiving feedback skillfully — separating triggers, understanding the three conversation types, and growing from difficult input.
Difficult Conversations
Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton & Sheila Heen
Skills for discussing what matters most — navigating the what-happened, feelings, and identity conversations with clarity and care.
Improvisation
The Improv Exercise Compendium — after Keith Johnstone et al.
245 exercises for status, spontaneity, acceptance and group mind. Practice drills from the improv tradition, with a dependency graph encoding each exercise's teaching order.
Feelings
Atlas of the Heart
Brené Brown
A vocabulary for emotional experience. Eighty-seven feelings sorted into thirteen "Places We Go", explored as a graph of variations and complementaries instead of a list of skills.
Polysecure
Jessica Fern
Attachment, trauma, and the moves for becoming secure with self and partners. The HEARTS framework, the nested model of attachment, and the work of polysecurity.